I've never really been about making resolutions. Mainly because I can never keep them. This year I wanted to seriously set some goals that I could reach.
Resolution #1
I started a diet November 21, 2011. Yes, the week of Thanksgiving.
Yes, I'm crazy.
I lost 13 pounds the first month.
So, my resolution is to remain on the diet & lose another 62 pounds.
I've never been overweight. Ever.
After we lost our first daughter I went into a deep depression. I used to be ashame to admit that but burying your child can do a number on you physically & emotionally.
I gained about 75 pounds. I want to lose the weight for many reasons. My health, to give my husband back the wife he married & to be able to keep up with Landry as she gets older.
I'm on the right track & I feel confident that I can keep the weight coming off.
Resolution #2
Organize our pictures.
I love taking pictures. My older sister calls me Kodak.
After Parker died I realized how important pictures truly are. Besides our memories it's all we have of her so I always have my camera with me. Always.
I took over 500 pictures the first month Landry was alive.
I'm addicted.
We have tons of pictures on our computer that need to be organized & saved to disk just in case our computer decides to crash.
It'll be a job but totally worth the time & effort!
Resolution #3
Finish our project list
And by that I mean without adding to it! We have quite the project list but nothing we can't finish. We have an issue with starting something & getting bored & moving on to the next project. Nothing ever gets finished in our house.
I decided to make a list room by room & finish one room at a time.
We are excited about trying some DIY stuff we've never tackled before. We work well as a team {most of the time} & getting things done is our theme for 2012.
Resolution #4
Better Meal Planning
Being on the diet means a multitude of things. No eating after 7 pm, staying within 1800 calories a day & eating 3 meals & 2 snacks a day.
During the winter it's easy to eat before 7 because my husband is "off" from January to March so he's home by 5:30 at the latest. April-December he's working until about 8 or 9 every night except Sunday. It's harder because I hate eating without him but I know I have to.
I did really good for about 2 weeks & after that I just got lazy. This one will be tough but I think I can handle it.
Resolution #5
Find a church to call home
We are members of a local church. We used to love it but it became too political & way too clicky. We stopped going when I got pregnant because I was super sick the first 14 weeks.
We both have some personal issues with the Pastor.
When we went into labor & had Landry {8 weeks early} no one from our church called, emailed, texted or visited. I was raised Baptist & I know the duties of a Pastor.
We were told by another member of the church that the reason they didn't do anything for us was because we hadn't been to church in a long time.
Yep, my mouth dropped open just like yours did.
There's more than just that. We talked about it for a long time & thought maybe we should go back but we don't feel at home there.
We want a church that has a great youth program.
A church that makes us feel at home.
Makes us feel welcomed & not judged.
I've been praying about it & know that God will lead us to the right place. I also know that I have to remain open minded & open hearted.
We'll start visiting some local churches next Sunday. We are excited about the journey & trust that God is walking it with us.
Resolution #6
Organize
Everything in our house.
Get rid of clothes, shoes & purses we don't use.
Purge the kitchen drawers, cabinets & pantry.
Work on the laundry room. It's in need of a major remodel. It's a great size room that will eventually lead out to a deck. It has a lot of potential but because it's a room that we are never in it never got any attention. That'll change. Soon.
Go through our file cabinet. Keep what's important.
I want to organize every square inch of this house. It will probably be the most time consuming job because I find myself having an emotional attachment to stuff. Crazy I know. I'm working on that too.
Well, that's my list.
Did you make a New Year's Resolution list?
I've never made new years resolutions either but I sat down tonight and made a list of goals I want to reach this year that will help me become a better stronger person. I'm excited! Diet, exercise and spiritual things are all on my list. I belong to an amazing church that I love. I hope that you and your family are able to find one you love also. Good luck to you!
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